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In this article, I am going to explain why most baby boomers in Singapore are skeptical when it comes to creativity, entrepreneurship and innovation. Most importantly, why their beliefs are detrimental to our nation growth – especially in youth and next generation development -even though they may seem like good as in protecting their children and grandchildren from most traditional Asian families’ perspective.
Just as the upcoming Transformers – The Last Knight’s slogan said in its preview poster – Rethink Your Heroes, it basically means that in order to understand the present, we have to rewind and rethink back to the past which resulted in their current way of thinking and insistence that future descendants think and do likewise.
For your information, baby boomers are basically those born in the 1960s and earlier. Which also means they are our parents, grandparents and great grandparents etc.
Though I mentioned my country in my last article, that was more of the recent and current situation. Now I am going to take you back 50-60 years before that resulted in the transpire of such events.
To begin with, when Singapore opened its doors for free trade and employment opportunities, our forefathers come all the way down from China, India and Malaysia in search for better jobs and pay. Not just for themselves but for their families who are suffering poverty in corrupt-plagued homelands. Like most of us, they are very open to different opportunities be it working for others or even setting up their own businesses just to make ends meet for themselves initially but long-term income for their families and children gradually in the long run.
But three things happened which derailed their plans and resulted in their short-term safeguard but long-term narrow-minded perspectives.
The first is that Singapore is originally founded and developed by Sir Stamford Raffles from United Kingdom. Whose his intentions are out of goodwill, the same cannot be said of his countrymen who see themselves superior to all Asians and intend to exploit them for their gain.
As in outsourcing the work to them to generate maximum profits and yet paying them peanuts which can hardly pay their rent and utility bills let alone put food on the table and send the money back to their families. Many of them – especially Chinese coolies – turned to opium smoking as a way of reducing their stress and workload they have to face every single day just to make enough money which never happens. Hence they are born poor and eventually died poor which is not their fault regardless of what other people may think. Even though they are in the right place at the right time, their ignorance and willingness to listen and do what others say – in particular the British -blindly leads them to the path of no return.
Secondly it is because of the World War II that resulted in Singapore being targeted for bombing and occupied by the Japanese for their agenda. The fact that my country is being surrendered and sold out by the British government without a hard fight speaks volumes about their cowardice, incompetence and selfishness. Our late founding father and Minister Mentor Lee Kuan Yew was a young student back then who was stopped by the Japanese for checking inspection and kicked about even when he did as told. That also resulted in his resolution of wanting to make our country a better place that our people can proudly proclaim as home rather than being exploited by British and Japanese.
That was what made him venture into politics and through his fiery speeches of providing a better life and throwing out the British who had by now turned corrupt and inefficient due to their complacency in ruling Singapore and even more so after World War II despite reclaiming it from the Japanese with the help of Americans.
Because most of my people and forefathers as in Chinese, Indians and Malays were poor, they strongly believed and supported his vision even though our nation was widely dismissed as we were the smallest country and regarded as a little red dot in Southeast Asia that was not known to many countries except major powers like United States, United Kingdom and surrounding neighbouring countries.
Despite Lee’s political People’s Action Party or PAP in short winning the General Elections in 1959, we were still under British control. After lengthy negotiations with the British in their territory, a treaty was signed and Singapore gained independence in 1965.
However there was one major problem that was overlooked by Lee and my forefathers.
Besides being the smallest island, Singapore had no natural resources. As in oil, gas and money for rebuilding. Given the fact that most of our people back then were uneducated and reduced to low paying jobs, the only way to make Singapore rise again – as it once had upon being founded by Raffles – was to leverage on other countries in their resources required for our survival. Not just our forefathers but their children and future generations as well.
Beginning with our neighbouring country Malaysia. However, the government there had a condition which Lee found it hard to abide by. Which was to give priority to Malays over Chinese and Indians. Because Lee saw our country as multi-racial which made us unique, he wanted the priority to be given to everyone. Which was to be treated with dignity and respect not just the way we lived but in our education, jobs and housing. That resulted in major differences and heated exchanges which eventually resulted in Malaysia backing out and Singapore had to feed for itself.
Those reasons I highlighted above explained why survival was considered as immediate priority in my country. Unfortunately because everyone wanted to make a lot of money and yet uneducated when it came to money management and delivering value to one another in order to make the money, the income inequality transpired and resulted in political unrest. Lee decided to make a harsh stand by suing and imprisoning most of his opposition opponents in order not to allow the past events of communist strikes against British resurface again and affected political stability.
Those events made our forefathers believe strongly that in order to survive, they should have a good education upon which they should study hard, good jobs from which they can get good pay, get married, being able to provide for families and retire happily. Due to their bad experiences of being exploited by British and Japanese, they strongly believed that as the one and only way to survive and live happily was through those and dismissed all forms of creativity, entrepreneurship and innovation as evil traits which will bankrupt and led Singapore to the dark side of the force as frequently phrased in Star Wars movies.
Yet when they were with their children and grandchildren, they liked to ask them what they liked to be when they grew up. At first glance, it might seem they liked to know but the truth was they saw children and grandchildren as young, naive and ignorant beings whom they can make fun of. Yet when they grew up and were ready to go to school, step into workforce and marry, they placed strong expectations and high burden on them as in continuing their lineage. As in doing what they were told and forget about whatever ambitions and passions they might have had as kids as those were dark influences that could turn them to be as corrupt and complacent as British and Japanese.
And given the fact that other countries imposed conditions on Lee and his ministers for free trading and creating jobs for Singaporeans. As in providing the same for those countries’ civilians when they come to Singapore be it play, study or work.
That resulted in an unlikely scenario.
A great place for foreigners to live, study, work and even set up their own businesses in whichever venture they wanted.
But a bad place for my people to live, study and work hard in jobs that are limited to hard labor, administrative, engineering, medical, mechanical and trading which were in abundance but very few jobs on arts, creativity and entertainment. Even though Arts And Crafts were one of the school subjects we studied, it was widely dismissed by most parents and ministers back then as jobs of such nature had no future since artists do not earn and also considered as bringing Singapore back to the dark days of poverty in the 1950-60s.
Anyone who went against those were perceived as unfilial and disrespectful to their elders, families and government. In other words, anyone wanting to pursue their passions but not within the hard labor, administrative and trading are judged to be rebels and villains.
Because of the need for survival, strong emphasize, pressure and workload of endless homework was placed on children as early as 7. This resulted in the highest number of them suffering from myopia and wearing spectacles. And when they reached secondary or high school by international standards, more pressure was added on them and they have to change their spectacles regularly as their shortsightedness increased.
When I said shortsightedness, I do not just mean not seeing clearly and have to wear glasses to improve their vision. But lacking vision and passion to pursue what they once have as children. Despite having a wealth of qualifications, knowledge and ideas, they are resigned to doing jobs their parents and grandparents want them to do rather than going all out to pursue and succeed in what they want relentlessly.
And when they are married and have kids, the situation is even worse as their financial burden becomes heavier with just one income source and numerous expenses as in housing, daily expenses, children education, medical welfare etc. Out of every 10 parents with kids at local toys store, only 2 to 3 actually bought toys for them. Simply because most cannot afford and needed to prioritize what they spent.
I have also seen those who spent their whole lives working just to make ends meet. By the time they retired and children working to support them, their minds become completely defragmented and forgetful. They have forgotten what they like and want to do as children and youths. Instead they spend the rest of their time looking for friends and rekindle their good old days which are not possible as their friends also have their own family obligations and busy with their own problems.
With that said, those are my reasons why most baby boomers in Singapore are skeptical about all forms of change and preferred to be in their designated comfort zone our founding father Lee and his PAP worked hard to build.
Though there was nothing wrong with that at glance, there was everything wrong with the way they imposed their beliefs on the younger generation. On what used to work in the past but are no longer applicable. The world has changed and so must my country in accordance with the trends instead of leveraging solely on other nations simply for survival.
There will be many people from my country who disagree with my views. Especially those from elite rich and upper middle income families who have never experienced hardship but only knew from reading books and watching TV and internet.
But it is still important for me to share with you for your better understanding of my country Singapore. Even though it is now developed and prospering in economy, most people are limited in their beliefs and drive, being overdependent on government, lacked wealth creation and money management skills simply because they are conditioned to study hard, work hard and retire with just your job income by our forefathers simply because of their beliefs and bad experiences in the past.
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Early in our marriage, my husband and I worked cooperatively on budgeting and saving. We came to an understanding that neither of us would make any major purchases until we discussed them and agreed upon them. But as the years passed, something shifted – and not in a good way.
When balancing our checkbook virtually every month, I would discover significant cash withdrawals that my husband had made, but with nothing material to show for them. When asked where the money was going, he would reply, “Good things. All good things.”
On many evenings, as I paid the bills and tried to budget the little that remained, I had to will myself not to cry. My husband would walk by me sitting there, pat me on the shoulder and say patronizingly, “You’ll figure it out.” And, yes, I always found a way to make ends meet, but barely. I suppose he knew I would, which only substantiated his increasingly spend-aholic ways.
Then there were the times later in our marriage when I found large sums of money stashed away in a drawer or the linen closet. When confronted, he would say that that was his money, perhaps from a bonus he said he had received at work. Not only did I not believe him, but it didn’t matter to me where the money came from when our household had legitimate needs. I reminded him that he had a wife and children who should be a priority, but he usually dismissed me and affirmed that he had more important things in mind – like buying a new shotgun or saving for a new set of conga drums. Month after month money continued to mysteriously disappear from our bank account.
After the divorce, it became apparent that at least a portion of those funds had been spent at local strip clubs. But even that couldn’t account for one-tenth of the financial – and emotional – damage the man had done to me and our children.
Recognizing that the abuser’s desire for power and control are at the core of the abusive relationship, it should come as no surprise that finances will likely be impacted as well.
No matter how conscientious and forbearing the abuser’s* spouse may be, she may be faced with the painful understanding that her mate’s needs and desires tend to be of greater import than those of his wife and children. It is another aspect of the dynamic that we as hyper-responsible victims attempt to reason away, trying to assume that the man has good intentions and just needs to be educated, as it were, on good financial management and responsibility. We believe that by setting a good example we will ultimately incite our spouse to adopt a more balanced financial approach.
Unfortunately, however, the primary principles that govern the abuser’s thought process with regard to finances seem to be these:
Money is another form of power he intends to utilize for his own benefit.
He doesn’t care how his monetary decisions affect anyone else.
Let’s look at some of the underlying principles and practices within the abuse dynamic.
The Insatiable Narcissist
From my experience, I am inclined that many, if not most, abusers are narcissists. Narcissists are constantly looking for stimulus from someone or something – a source of supply, so access to money is vital to feed his inner emptiness addiction. The contented glow he assumes after purchasing some new toy or pursuing a new hobby or immediate source of pleasure he believes will make him happy quickly wears off. So he must constantly pursue new relationships, adrenaline-inducing experiences or material possessions in his vain effort to fill the bottomless pit in his heart. Unfortunately, from my experience, there is nothing and no amount of money that can ever procure what is necessary to fill that pit (other than God). This also means that he must do everything in his power to commandeer how the majority of funds are spent so as to ensure that he gets what he wants before the money is spent on something or someone else. It is that important to him. Not all abusers are this extreme; nevertheless, this dynamic is important to understand.
When it comes to employment, there are several scenarios that are common, and every one of them is impacted by the abuser’s desire for power and control. And of course, there are countless variables that may come into play.
The Owner: This guy brings home a hefty income and provides his wife with every nicety. But he is not a nice guy. This man’s wife may describe him as “difficult” or perhaps “high-maintenance,” which is generally her code word for “abusive.” Although she wears a stunning diamond wedding ring, drives a nice new car and lives in a beautiful home, she is not happy.
He imposes limits upon her freedom, has severe expectations about how his household should be managed, and endeavors to control her relationships while making sure that, when appropriate, she presents a carefully crafted image of perfection for family and any guests. Should she dare to petition him to be kinder toward her, he will remind her of all of the material comforts she enjoys as a result of his hard work and generosity. The owner’s wife wonders if she is being ungrateful if she acknowledges that she fears her husband rather than respects him. She is essentially his possession, and she knows that, if she leaves, others may view her as petty and unappreciative. Not even lavish material benefits can compensate for a life lived with an abuser.
The Control Freak: In cases where the abuser is the sole provider, the control freak especially believes he has a divine right to decide how all resources are spent, and the lion’s share will be claimed by him. He may put his wife on a tight budget. Any funds beyond that are strictly subject to his priorities. If she is forced to grovel for his favor, that only assures him of his power. Groveling won’t necessarily incite him to be more financially gracious, and he may place conditions and limits on any expenditures to which he consents.
In cases where both partners work, the abuser will assert his role as “the man of the house” and assume a divine right to decide how the majority of the money is spent. Again, if there is something he wants or needs, that takes precedence, even if it means that basic necessities are sacrificed, including the children’s needs for new clothes, shoes, food or school supplies.
The User: Finally, there are those situations where the abuser prefers to allow his spouse to support him. In many cases, although the abuser is for all intents and purposes employable, he seems unable to find or hold a job. He may wander in and out of various professions only to lose interest or end up getting laid off, perhaps due to a poor work ethic although he will complain of “poor management” or insinuate that the people he worked with were “out to get him.” Some abusers choose higher education as their escape of choice and might dabble in several majors before deciding that nothing appeals to them.
Over time, these abusers grow accustomed to being financially supported and rationalize the benefits of remaining home, whether to maintain the household or take care of kids. This scenario may be perfectly workable if you’re dealing with a healthy person, but the abusive personality is still primarily concerned about his own well-being, and it shows. For him, this situation isn’t about serving but receiving.
This type appreciates the freedom that comes from not working, as it allows him to make his own schedule and priorities while allowing his wife to pay his way. But he also makes it clear to his victim that, should she decide to divorce him, he will make sure she compensates him for all of the “sacrifices” he has made.
All of these situations are under-girded by an entitlement mentality whereby the abuser believes he has the right to decide what he will do and when without any input from his victim who is simply expected to accommodate whatever he decides. She will learn, likely with no small measure of discomfort, that she has almost no voice in these matters. You can bet he will always be able to rationalize his while victim feels powerless, taken for granted and financially insecure.
It is also not uncommon for an abuser to threaten to quit his job or look for ways to get paid under the table should his wife decide to divorce him so that she will be left struggling for adequate financial support, or she may find herself supporting him for some time after the divorce.
All of these scenarios are indicators that the abuser loves his money more than his bride and will wield it as a weapon if necessary.
Many victims report their suspicions that their abusers have secret accounts, hidden cash or unaccounted-for expenses. The abuser’s intent is, once again, to make sure that his needs are taken care of first and foremost, no matter the risk or cost to others in the household. Some victims feel that their abusers are even preparing for the possibility of separation or divorce and have set aside a secret slush fund for themselves while depriving their spouses of resources that might facilitate their escape.
Unnecessary or Extravagant Spending
Some financial abusers occasionally arrive home with costly or unnecessary items. These spur-of-the-moment purchases feed the beast’s insatiable appetite for stuff, but these decisions are rarely, if ever, discussed beforehand with his spouse. When he shows up with a brand-new, big-screen television and his wife is less than thrilled about the amount of money spent (and the television they have works just fine), he will complain that she is a bitter, selfish woman and a killjoy for not embracing his self-serving measure of generosity. He will insist he “bought it for the family,” when the truth is that he bought it for himself.
He may also become a big spender when he is having friends over or meeting someone he wants to impress. Wanting to appear the superior host, he may spring for T-bones for the barbecue, and expect his bride to put together all the fixings for an impressive spread. Should his bride object, he will likely tell her to lighten up and enjoy life, while the resentment she carries from feeling like a servant and a third-class citizen only grows.
Beyond spending financial resources on expensive or unnecessary items, many abusers are also good at incurring debt when the opportunity presents itself. Debt serves three purposes: 1) it makes it possible for him to have what he wants immediately and defer to his wife as to how to pay for it later; 2) his claim on available funds means his bride can’t spend them on other things, and 3) debt keeps his victim financially bound to him. Community property laws generally make both parties equally responsible for debt obligations, which can make it financially difficult for a victim to become independent. The abuser might well make certain she knows that.
Putting Property in His Name
Oftentimes, abusers look for ways to claim property as their sole possession. This is where the difference between debt and equity must be examined. An abuser will may like the idea of saddling his victim with his debt while keeping assets with equity in his name alone. It is not altogether difficult to see whose interests he is protecting.
Assuming Control of an Inheritance
When an abuser’s victim receives an inheritance, oftentimes an abuser will either 1) demand that she expend them on his self-declared financial emergencies or 2) look for ways to obtain access to those funds. Once that is accomplished, he will siphon off or spend the money for his own well-being, hiding or hoarding. Many an abuse victim who wants to prove to her abuser that she is willing to trust him may end up being defrauded of an entire inheritance that might have helped her to separate from her abuser and begin a new life, not to mention the fact that the money was intended for her use.
Stealing may seem extreme, but if an abuser is willing to withdraw and hoard funds intended for the household or pilfer his wife’s inheritance, why wouldn’t he also be willing to take advantage of strangers? Many abusers are highly resourceful and may look for ways to embezzle funds or highjack product from their employers or engage in any number of shady dealings if they are confident they can get away with it. Some women have even shared that they suspect their abusers of stealing jewelry or other valuables and selling them off. This is not a problem for the abuser because his need to procure whatever he wants is always more important than how his actions affect other people. Stealing brings with it the added thrill of getting away with something. Gambling may also fall into this category.
Questions worth asking:
Does it seem that he loves his possessions and/or his power more than you?
Do you feel mostly powerless with regard to marital financial decisions?
Does he make you responsible for his poor financial choices or debt or minimize their impact?
Do you feel resentful of his constant efforts to put his needs first?
Are you frustrated by his self-centered focus as to when or whether he works based on his moods or preferences?
Does he disregard your efforts to discuss issues related to your finances?
Do you feel like you have to grovel to get him to meet some of your basic household or personal needs?
Does he make impulsive purchases?
Do you feel like you have to pay close attention to your finances and debt load?
Do you distrust him with money?
Does he deny the financial harm he is causing?
If some or all of your answers indicate that your relationship is being negatively affected by some serious financial issues, then you might want to consider whether legitimate household needs are the priority – or he is.
What Can A Victim Do to Protect Herself?
Create separate bank and credit card accounts.
Make sure that both of your names are on title documents associated with property with equity or, if the property is yours alone, make sure your name alone is on the title.
Insist upon a workable budget based on family priorities and demand that he respect it.
Refuse to provide him access to inherited funds.
Look for evidence of any hidden cash or bank accounts and reclaim them.
Refuse to co-sign any new loans, refinance or credit applications.
Consider meeting with a family law attorney to research legal options to protect yourself financially.
While these suggestions may help to better protect your financial interests, they don’t do anything to incur lasting change in your abuser’s self-centered heart. Marital relationships must be grounded in trust. If your spouse is either financially irresponsible or power-hungry, then you may need to have a serious conversation focused on serious change and/or serious consequences.
Some would say that we must be willing to accept our spouse’s weaknesses, as in, “… for better or worse, for richer or poorer… ” Such a view is a twisting of the truth. These vows should be representative of the two working as one, striving together to tackle whatever trying circumstances come against them from the outside world. These vows should never justify one marriage partner selfishly pitted against the other. As far as your spouse is concerned, you should never feel like you have to watch your back.
The financial abuser who refuses to support a budget that best serves the needs of everyone in the household leaves those who are depending upon him materially unprotected. Conversely, the one who loves his family will be a protector, one who will do whatever he can to ensure that every family member’s needs are met – even before his own. That’s what spousal and parental love looks like.
“… But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” I Timothy 5:8
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*Although abusers can be of either gender, the overwhelming majority of abusers are male; therefore, for the sake of simplicity the abuser is referred to in the masculine.
Cindy Burrell, a writer, wife, mother and a survivor of emotional abuse is here to tell you that there is hope…
After twenty years in an abusive relationship Cindy was left feeling lost, lonely and emotionally destitute, having learned to compromise her happiness and her value in an unsuccessful attempt to survive. Finally forced to leave their home with her four children, they escaped the emotional prison in which they had all lived. Since those days, Cindy and her children have found healing and restoration.
Cindy’s ministry, Hurt by Love,and her books, including “Why Is He So Mean to Me?” have positively impacted the lives of women in 42 countries since the introduction of her website in 2009.
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